tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post9005872847251419540..comments2023-09-24T12:12:45.569+01:00Comments on Date the District: Survey the District: But How Do I Let Him Know That I'm Interested?Date the Districthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01824995534660654328noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-74847699854514611692009-11-15T04:49:31.810+00:002009-11-15T04:49:31.810+00:00DCSnarker -- chill the fuck out. No one's for...DCSnarker -- chill the fuck out. No one's forcing you to read this blog. I happen to love the advice and think the poster provides a fresh, blunt perspective. Like it or don't like it. Don't be a hater.Alpern Grouphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09389396055453190859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-11335248456717663442009-11-13T17:53:05.141+00:002009-11-13T17:53:05.141+00:00I definitely agree with you on Ginnifer Goodwin. B...I definitely agree with you on Ginnifer Goodwin. Between her two roles as a polygamist and a desperate girl without a clue, she's given some of the worst dating advice. Oh, and Justin Long is her enabler. Ensemble cast rom-coms almost always end in disaster.Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15041191343645896363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-57125977269608825252009-11-13T16:41:38.084+00:002009-11-13T16:41:38.084+00:00"Similarly, advising that girls should never ..."Similarly, advising that girls should never seem interested is what turns men into dogs- if they always have to hunt for the prey, they think of women as just that, prey."<br /><br />I completely agree, you can't complain about the 'game' and then perpetuate it. Personally, I like it when girls are into me. I mean, why would I want to be around one who wasn't.Jagermasterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14429226618517081945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-58726820840744448862009-11-13T03:13:01.685+00:002009-11-13T03:13:01.685+00:00I totally agree "He's Just Not That Into ...I totally agree "He's Just Not That Into You" was a horrendous movie! Hmm I think your plan would make sense, if i could only i could stop drunk-texting guys in the middle of the night! Maybe you should make a "Survey the District" entry on how to stop yourself from doing that!sammysmithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11185801828342395243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-8629454341344625422009-11-12T21:23:40.814+00:002009-11-12T21:23:40.814+00:00Dear Date the District,
Let me pose a question h...Dear Date the District, <br /><br />Let me pose a question here: Where do you get off with this heinous advice?<br /><br />I don't mean to be cruel but you should reevaluate your choices here. You seem to be a good writer, but the content is ATROCIOUS. <br /><br />I can tell from your perspective on both men and women that you are probably 22 years old, newly moved to the district (because if you weren't you'd know the last thing DC needs is another blog by some lonely girl telling lonely girls how not to be lonely), and probably have very little relationship experience.<br /><br />When is the right time to have sex? When it feels right, and you're in a sexually and emotionally mature place. For some people that's after the first date. For some its after 50. Waiting "as long as possible" is a ridiculous trick that little girls play when they're unaware of how mutual respect works.<br /><br /><br />I'm going to put it out there- if you slept with a guy on the first date, and he never called you again, you guys were NEVER going to be in a happy, successful relationship. Similarly, if you waited 3 months and strung the poor hormonal mess along and then fucked the ever living daylights out of him and OMG HE TOTALLY CALLED YOU!!!! Guess what, its not going to last! Tricking some man into sticking it out through a punitively long wait for sex is not going to change your innate chemistry, it will just expose you as a manipulative bitch, who probably sucks in bed. (I mean, if you were a rockstar in the sack, you'd probably want to show him right away, just saying.)<br /><br />Similarly, advising that girls should never seem interested is what turns men into dogs- if they always have to hunt for the prey, they think of women as just that, prey. Then they go after the shiny bunnies- the blondes with big tits (sorry, they're tits on that kind of girl), who present themselves as sexual objects for the taking. Girls like you, being cold and aloof are left in the corner hating on the bunny girls and talking about 'self worth' and being above it. You're right, why demonstrate that you are an interesting person worth spending some extra time on, when you can demonstrate that you are a cold, disinterested, self absorbed bitch?<br /><br />As I said, I don't mean to be cruel, but you need to take a step back and reevaluate what you put into the world. This advice is the pseudo-feminist, quasi-liberal crap that girls who have had bad experiences with douchebags spout to their similarly inclined friends over too many vodka sodas at a crappy bar. <br /><br />Leave it there. <br /><br />Following up on a previous comment, drop the fake question and answer format (dude, no one is e-mailing you questions, get over it, its just weird.) and give some real life experiences. Want to talk about why you should wait? Give it a story. Put your real life experiences where you're mouth is. You said you were a sex columnist... Based on the contents of this blog, I am not inclined to believe that. Where's the juice? The humility? The EXPERIENCE? Give me that and that's a blog I would read and not want to vomit hatred all over their comments. <br /><br />So, my most sincere apologies for shitting all over you right now, but really this last post was the absolute tipping point for me. You sound ridiculous, please reevaluate, and try to give your readers something real to hold onto. <br /><br />Sorry I got a little real just then.<br /><br />Love always,<br />Your loyal reader,<br />DC Snarker.DCSnarkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04936481711592628376noreply@blogger.com